The above is exactly what you need to be asking yourself whenever you write a post – if you’re trying to build an audience online. Or to be more precise, anticipate this question from your readers. It’s an acronym for:

“What the f*ck, what’s in this for me?”

Writing about your average experiences or something mundane about your day is called a journal. Actually there’s about a million of these and they’re called Live Journal accounts – and nobody cares about any of them outside of each writer’s few close friends.

It’s easy to fall into this line of thinking: your life is important to you, therefore anything that happens is important to the outside world. I’ve fallen into this trap myself. Crap, see there it goes again. Ok, let me rephrase this:

Avoid using the word “I” in your posts. If something is important enough to be said, you can state it as a generality. Not only will it help you avoid the mundane, but it will also carry more weight and assumed authority, assuming you have any to begin with.

Bryan Clark once wrote that “you” and “because” are the most important words in the English dictionary. He’s right. This relates to writing and specifically writing to build up an audience.

What does it take to build an audience online with your blog? Thousands of new blogs and websites come out each day and most end up garnering extremely small audiences.

You Need to Be Remarkable, Controversial, or Already Well Known.

If you’re not a Hilton and you don’t want to piss off tons of people by being a Calacanis, you’re left with being remarkable. One of the best ways to be remarkable is to consistently help your audience. Whether it’s teaching new information, compiling resources, giving advice, or making your audience laugh, you need to be remarkable if your efforts online are to be anything other than a playful exercise.

So before you start out a new project or put out a new post, just remember this little acronym: WTF, WITFM. The better and more realistic the answer, the better off you will be.

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